after this chapter ended....


after breaking up..there will be no room to become friends....is this statement true??there been people telling me that after breaking up with the one they had been in love with..they cant be friends anymore??how true is this??do they actually hate them?or they just too sad..and blame the other one for cheating on them..okay..even is not because cheating...can it because they wanna let the disappointment and sadness to be filled??instead of accepting the fact and forgive, they choose to hate them...so they can be happier??

for my personal experience, after breaking up, there is a chance for us to become friends...okay...i doesnt not take into account those who had cheated me from the very start and try to take advantage because they got nth better to do...but i do believe that a couple could be friend after all....and i did....those who knew me from early would know....

is true that it will be very sad..thinking why do they wanna do all these things to us...and the heart is like being choped into pieces...i been cheated before...and i also saw it with my own eyes that the one i used to love is with another one....and that time i really really feel like killing myself....and when people said..dont so sad....yeah yeah..they understand...but who can really understand until they experienced it....but they are just trying to help us to get out from that..so i very appreciate them....thank you....back to the topic....hehe....yeah..but why we choose to think and suffer??why not just let it go and have a new life..?is hard??yeah..quite...but really....is better to hate someone...

when u hate someone...there will be a forever thing....whenever u flash back ur memories...the painn will be still there...and anger eventually came too....then you will be starting to scold and curse them...but those that really matter to them??the answer is no...if they really cheated on you and dont love you anymore..anything happen to you..they wont even care...when he/she choose to lose you..you just lose someone that doesnt love you..but they lose someone who love and care bout them...thats why you got nothing to lose.... =p

LOVE YOURSELF MORE!!!!

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